"Love is a two-way street that is constantly under construction" - Carroll Bryant
And I believe we can all create the relationships we desire. It simply takes intentional effort, some self awareness, and the ability to be honest to yourself. I have a passion for helping people navigate through their past traumas and experiences to be able to heal and overcome those patterns in order to produce the love life they dream of!
My Story Goes Something Like This:
After a divorce at 23, I was left confused and devastated as to how I ended up there in the first place. No one gets married expecting to get divorced. 9 months after that, I found myself in another toxic relationship 🙄 ...So then I slammed on the brakes and got down to work.
Why did I keep having these awful relationships? Why did I find myself yet again with someone emotionally unavailable, disloyal, and insecure? Where did all the good men go to? Am I doomed to never find true love?
I went to therapy, A LOT. I read a ton of self help books. I listened to interviews with relationship experts. I DID IT ALL!!! 5 Years later, and I call myself the professional bumble dater (well now I'm off the market 😉). When I started dating again, I was much more stable and confident in who I am as a person, what I'm looking for, and I quit trying to force people into my life and started letting the right people stay in my life. It's a whole different mindset.
It took me 5 years, $4k on therapy, and hundreds of dollars on books to get to the point to where I am today. So I started my coaching business to help women avoid my mistakes, heal from their pasts, and create the relationship of their dream without the time and large money investments that I needed to make. I love my business because I lead with my heart. I care about people, their pain, their experiences, and I care about your goals and dreams.
All in all, I want to help people. I want the world to know that love is real and it can endure if we take the necessary steps to get there, which means healing our wounds, learning our triggers/patterns, and developing our communication skills. I know the pain of heartbreak ALL TOO WELL, and I was exhausted from it. I am now so much happier, I am more free, I am more independent, I am loving my love life, and I want the same for you. So check out my free guide, and book a coaching session with me; then we can get to work on achieving your relationship goals with my customized 1:1 coaching program!
Alex Scot ❤️