Hey, I'm Alex!

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and it is nice to e-meet you in this virtual world we live in! I am a certified & trauma informed dating & relationship coach, & I help my clients to heal from their narcissistic & toxic relationships so that they can finally move on, develop unshakeable self-love & confidence, & establish healthy conscious relationships that light their soul on 🔥!

I got to where I am today after making LOADS of mistakes in my love life. I got married at the young age of 20, & divorced at 23, and as timing would have it Bumble & Tinder were the new ways of dating. So thinking I was ready to find Mr. Right, I downloaded Bumble, made a profile & got to swiping. I hopped from toxic situantion-ship to toxic situantion-ship until I hit my rock bottom, which came after dated a man who finally confided in my that he was diagnosed with NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) during court ordered therapy.

Not knowing what NPD was, I got to googling only to discover something terrifying. I had a parent, that checked all the boxes for the diagnostic criteria of NPD too! This is when the magic happened because I immediately had a light bulb moment... 

I was attracted to narcissistic men because the upbringing with my narcissistic parent made me unable to recognize the red flags of NPD since all the toxic behaviors were "normal" to me. 

That was when I took my heartbreak, frustration & hopelessness & turned it into my super power by realizing I was the common denominator in all of my relationships. In order to change my love life, I realized that I needed to look inside myself, heal my childhood wounds, & develop the skills necessary for the healthy loving relationship that I sooo craved.

Fast-forward seven years & I am now teaching other women (and the occasional man) how to do the same -- through healing their hearts, developing unshakeable self-love & confidence, & learning to date smart by recognizing red flags!

My goal with my business is to spread awareness on the reality of narcissistic abuse & to help as many people as possible put a stop to their toxic relationship patterns, so that they can experience the true conscious love they have been searching for. 

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Join Healing Heart Hackers! 

This monthly membership consists of a tribe of women dedicated to doing the inner work necessary to break free from their wounds, take back control of their lives, & date smart so that they create healthy conscious relationships that light their soul on fire! 🔥

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Want Private Coaching?

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My private coaching program, The Worthy Woman Accelerator, is a 3-month luxury coaching program that takes you through:

  • Healing your heart with scientifically proven strategies so that you feel secure & whole within yourself! 
  • Reconnecting with the authentic you so that you develop true unshakeable self-love & confidence
  • Discovering your core values for your ideal relationship so that dating becomes less confusing & more clear
  • How to date smart so that you spot the red flags & stop settling for less within your relationships

My private clients gain access to

  • The Empowered Woman Academy (my signature online course) & the additional guest coaching calls within Healing Heart Hackers!
  • Weekly private 1-hr zoom calls
  • Monday-Friday daily text & voice chat coaching between calls via Voxer (a free app)
  • & a private Google portal for integration assignments & additional resources. 
I'm Committed To My Healing!
Free Web Class
"3 Signs Of A Narcissistic Partner & The Narcissistic Relationship Cycle"
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In this free web class you will:
  • Learn about the 3 most common signs of a narcissistic person, so that you know within the next 30 minutes if you are with one or not! 
  • Learn about the narcissistic relationship cycle so that you can see just how predictable it is & know how to put a STOP to it! 
  • Identify what the next steps you need to take in order to move forward, heal for real, & STOP attracting narcissistic partners